No one enjoys having their flaws pointed out, picked on. Nobody enjoys that humiliation especially when the pickee is the person is the one you love the most.
In our eyes, we are not perfect. We are perfect because our lovers tell us we are. When our loves pick at our insecurities, when the adjectives coming out of their mouths are not complimentary but rather disruptive, we do not know what to do. The only thing we want to do then is go dig a hole, curl up and cry. Why ? The answer’s simple. People try to be perfect, and seem flawless in another person’s eyes so when your love objects your “perfection” , your ego shatters. Although every single person on this planet has a mold that we want out lovers to fit, do not try to change them. Accept them for who they are and widen your mold, for them.
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